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Week 5: Love in Growth & Transformation

Love in Growth & Transformation

Written by Krista Monson

New growth is exciting! It is happening right now outside our doors. Green is starting to sprout up from the ground, and seedlings are sprouting as well! Hooray!

We experience growth too. We take our first steps, we lose teeth, we learn to ride a bike; no matter how old we are, we keep growing. 

Growing can be difficult too. Growing pains are experienced by our bodies aching and hurting as we stretch taller and bones grow. In order to get a new tooth, we first had to lose one. Losing a tooth can be scary and hurt a bit. But it doesn’t last long! Soon a new tooth grows and maybe you are rewarded for losing a tooth and growing.

Same goes for moments that happen in life. Painful or scary moments may happen only for a little while, but we still get nervous about them. We try to avoid feeling pain. Doing our best to protect ourselves from it. When it happens, we can get upset and frustrated. We tried so hard to avoid these moments! Why do they still happen?

That is where love comes in. Pain and fear are facts of life. They cannot be avoided. The blessing experienced in those moments is the opportunity to learn and grow. We need to express love and care to ourselves in those difficult moments. It is okay to be frustrated. It is okay to need to take a pause or a break to unpack and sit with these hard moments; to take a deep breath and let ourselves feel. It is important to share love with people close to us feeling these frustrations too. Showing them care and giving them support.

We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance. And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation. And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.
— Romans 5:3-5

Self-Care

A great way to help with transitions and tough moments is to take care of yourself. What do you do to show yourself love? Is it treating yourself to something delicious? Taking a bath? Taking a nap? Doing a favorite activity? Having quiet time?

Challenge

Try something new. A new place to eat, a new hobby, a new book, etc. Pay attention to yourself. How do you feel beforehand? How do you feel while trying something new? What do you learn?

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Share as a family, or ask someone close to you who has known you a long time to reflect with you, about times in your life that you have grown (physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally)? Share your own moments or highlight other’s that you have witnessed.


Week 2: Love is in the Quiet Moments

Love is in the Quiet Moments

By D.J. Chatelaine

I love to keep myself busy. From training for and running three marathons to cooking and baking or making music in my “downtime,” in addition to working and pursuing my other passions and curiosities, I do without ceasing. Scheduling my days around eating, sleeping, working and these hobbies, I find that I can thrive for a time in this fast-paced, demanding routine I self-impose. But also, I find that when I burn out, it usually involves extreme fatigue, some sort of cold or injury and little to no desire to do anymore or anything else. Although I’m still figuring out the balance in my life, I find the times that I’m still--that is, the times I pause and rest--are most life giving.

One of my favorite places to be still is in the Boundary Waters Canoe Area Wilderness in northern Minnesota. I’ve been just about every other year since I was 12 years old, and even though it’s a bit challenging to be in the wilderness for a week at a time, having to carry everything you need--food, clothes, shelter, cookware--with you over rugged trails and paddling through choppy waters, the time I’ve spent there has been some of the most life giving. For it is in the moments of stillness, where there’s nothing to do besides laying on a sun-soaked rock, listening to the loons calling, the wind blowing through the mighty branches of ancient trees and seeing islands of trees rise out of the sky blue waters, that I feel at peace--one with God, nature and everything around me. The worries of the outside world and my life leave me for this moment in time and I can fully be present in creation and my being.

Moments like these are meant to be temporary and shouldn’t last forever, as the work we are called to do is important and life giving in its own way. Yet at the same time, these moments of stillness and solitude reflect a great love. A love that helps me renew, reset and recharge for what’s to come once I leave the Boundary Waters. Where is your Boundary Waters experience? Where is your moment or place of stillnes? Perhaps it’s on a beach, or at home, or in a forest, or with those you love. In this Lenten season, take the time to practice or simply remember those moments of stillness. For it is in that very stillness that love shows up.

Time to Chat

Car conversations for me growing up were some of the richest moments I had with my parents and sisters. From checking in on each others’ days to my dad and I listening to music on the way to school every day, this time together was a chance to reset for the day to come or decompress from the day that was. How can these moments of detachment and time together offer an opportunity for you and your family to check-in and talk about where you’ve found stillness today?

Challenge and Activities

Teens and Adults: Julie Stevens, our Director of Contemplative Practices, has assembled a Lenten Mindfulness Meditation Challenge. I’ve used this moment of stillness to center myself for the many tasks and events to come each day. Mindfulness makes every moment feel that much more full, intentional, present and meaningful. If you haven’t already, your challenge for this week is to find a time—perhaps in the car, at the breakfast/dinner table or right before bed—to go through one of Julie’s 5-7 minute meditations. Here’s a link to the mindfulness challenge.

Children and Families: How do you build quiet time into your day? Do the kids read or have screen time to instill some quiet? Maybe they quietly play on their own. This week, try something new: quiet circle time! Sit on the floor, chairs, or around the table in a circle as a family. Challenge yourselves to 1-2 minutes (or more if you want) of quiet breathing together. Sit comfortably, play some quiet music (google “yoga music” for options), close your eyes, and be still for those 1-2 minutes. Doing this together is a fun way to challenge each other for a quiet moment as well as build a bonding moment in breathing and being mindfully centered together.

Cross Path Sunday

Cross Path Sunday

March 3, 2019 at 10:00a.m.-10:45a.m.

Sunday School will be held in the Fireside Room and Garden Lounge. Parents, please accompany your children.

You’re invited to Cross Path Sunday! We believe in community here at Gloria Dei! You are a part of this fantastic community and Cross Path Sunday is an event that offers many ways to get to know each other. Whether you enjoy coffee and conversation, board games, creative projects, snacks…we have something for everyone!

All ages will come together for fun, fellowship, and community. We are a community of many. Cross Path Sunday is a time where we focus on building community. Get to know someone new. Enjoy the awesome people here at Gloria Dei. Where all are welcome and we meet you where you are.

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